That player should be banned from playing VMSL
I would imagine depending on the report it will be a lengthy suspension. I don't necessarlily feel a life-time banning is in order depending on past history. In the heat of things people make decisions that may be out of character. As Ricky G said this isn't a case of boys will be boys and we do have to be accountable for our actions. So I don't really know what punishment fits as I've never witnessed a incident like this.
I dont know if guys just weren't aware of the damage or what but for me as much as the incident was awful people's view of it after bothered me just as much. I'd hope after reflection everyone involved would act differently as I imagine they probably would. Just kind of ruined what was an important very competitive game. Time to move forward as we have an even bigger game this weekend.